Please porridge hot, please porridge cold

You meet someone.
You are attracted.
You want to do nasty dirty things to them in a naked kind of way, and yet you like their converstaion too.
You think they feel the same! Right?

Seem simple enough. But it never is.

Certain people go hot and cold with how they treat you. One minute they are laughing at your jokes, touching your arm, spontaneously kissing you in front of their friends............
the next minute, you dont hear from them for 5 days. They wont look you in the eye. They are disinterested in anything you have to say.
Some time later, they go right back to being all mushy aagain.

Is it my fault? you ask yourself. Christ's testicles no!

These people are wishy-washy, indecisive, they have the 'grass is greener' syndrome. Perhaps their parents didnt hug them enough. Or for that matter, hugged them too much.
They will miss the scenery on the trip, always looking at the destination. Never enjoying the moment.

You cannot be held accountable for people who dont see whats in front of them.

Or, they have a split personality. One can only hope its a cool one. Like Obi Wan. Or Jean-Luc Picard.